Inner beauty is as important as outer physical beauty; actually it is the most important feature in our human being. We women spend most of our time seeking our physical beauty, searching for new fashion, paying lots of money in cosmetics and plastic surgeries if necessary, and that’s ok.
But we should never ever forget taking care of our inner beauty. It is the beauty of our hearts, our souls, and spirits. Make sure that your Inner beauty makes you more attractive, not just spiritually but also physically.
People can easily see it on your face, your lovely smile; they can see it in your truthful eyes, which is the doorway to your heart. If you want to be more beautiful, more attractive, and more agreeable invest in your inner beauty, nourish it, and pay attention to it. Outer beauty is great, but believe me it is not everything.
Your inner beauty starts from you… be yourself, love yourself. Accept yourself as you are and don’t try to change your true nature in order to please anyone, believe me if you are not satisfied with your self you won’t be able to satisfy other people around you. Don’t try to put masks, no matter how your mask looked beautiful every one will feel its fakeness and coldness.
Find your unique gifts and work on developing them. Don’t say I am not gifted or talented because you are! God has created every one with his own uniqueness and He has given you your share of it.
Explore your self, search for your points of strength and you will find them deep within you. Remember “Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one’s courage.” -Anais Nin .
Take time in prayers, meditation, and practicing yoga, this can help you to contact with your inner voice, can give you tranquility and peace of mind.
Forgive and forget. Forgive yourself for any mistake you committed against yourself or others. Forgive others for hurting you for any possible reason. Forgiveness is strength, the weak person can never forgive. It’s a healthy attitude that set you free from poisonous emotions that may one day kill your beating heart. Remember “forgiveness is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner were you.” “Emo Philips” .
Give an un conditional love. Love yourself unconditionally, this is not selfishness. Love people around you unconditionally, this is not naivety because this doesn’t mean giving them blind trust. Love is one thing and trust is another story. “the ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well.” Elisabeth Kubler-Ross.
Give unconditionally….giving is a healing power. Giving doesn’t know the laws of boarders, doesn’t now limits and it is the proof of real love. Give from your heart and you will reach others hearts. Give of your time, your money, your wisdom, your knowledge…it has many forms and shapes. You need to know that love and giving are not a matter of direction!
It is not a matter of direction!
There is a heart at the south of the globe
And a heart at the north of the globe
But between them there is a strong bond of hope
See the sun when she opens our day
And the moon at the end of its way
They are waiting for the eclipse to come
And together for a while they can stay
It’s not the time…it’s not the place
It’s not the age…it’s not the race
Only true love, only true heart….
Only true feelings I will embrace
If our bodies are in the opposite directions
But in the soul there’s a beam of affection
Then we can raise with our love….
And let the thirsty souls above….
Till they can taste satisfaction
It is not a matter of direction!